Friday Night Lights: “The Giving Tree”

20 March 2009
by R.A. Porter

Money comes and goes, yeah? These kids of ours, that’s a one-time deal.

“The Giving Tree” is one of Shel Silverstein’s finest works, and while Landry’s right that his relationship with Tyra superficially resembles it, the story is about parents and children. The give us life, nurture and support us. They feed us, clothe us, give us shelter and succor. They keep us warm and dry and safe. They teach us to play and teach us to become men and women. In the end, we survive our parents. We are their lives’ work and when they finish, when we finally say our goodbyes, it is with love and debt for all they’ve done.

Some parents are better at it than others, of course. Tami, calmly, quietly, with open heart and open mind listening to Julie and giving her good advice. Eric reminding Matt that women are to be respected. JD’s mother, trying her best to diffuse Joe’s worst.

Some are worse, even when they mean well. Buddy didn’t see himself as stealing from Lyla. Buddy saw a sure thing and believed he’d be able to return the money he borrowed without harm. Always a little blind to his own failings, Buddy blames everyone else for his problems until Lyla finally calls him out. But Buddy’s a decent man. He sees how he screwed up and finally opens up and apologizes, taking the blame. Lyla’s Vandy dreams are over, but I hear San Antonio State has an excellent _____ program. She’ll be fine.

Then of course there are the monsters. They aren’t giving trees, supporting and protecting their children, but bloodsuckers. Joe McCoy is trying to live vicariously through JD and has taken away his childhood in the process. He’s not done yet.

The kids are alright. Assuming this isn’t another fakeout by the writers, Tyra’s finally on the right path out of town instead of the fleabitten road she was traveling with Cash. Buckling down, begging Landry for help, and working to catch up, she also *hears* Landry when he tells her all she does it take. In typical Tyra fashion, she’s able to use her wiles to get a gig for Crucifictorious. She finally gives back to Landry, and in the process finally *sees* him as the guy we all know he’s going to be.

Tim does the unthinkable and calms Buddy. No anger, no posturing, just calm. He tells Buddy to leave but makes it clear it’s just for now, just so Lyla can cool down. Tim looked and behaved like a man at his door, for the first time since we began this journey over two years ago. Where he learned that…I don’t know, but it was a sight to behold.

Matt and Julie are still alive and not locked in dungeons, so that’s a good sign. This is less about their growth than about Eric and Tami accepting it. Two years ago1 Tami and Julie screamed, slammed, and attacked with sarcasm over her sexual awakening. Now Tami’s ready enough for a teary-eyed but calm conversation about how to behave like a woman. And Coach, well, he’s ready to clean the hell outta that grill, but manages to bark out the imperative to Matt that he respect women.

While all this is going on, there is football to be played. Three games remain till state,2 but the team’s up against some refs who have it in for Coach. Dillon’s appeal to get a different officiating squad fails, so they have to face a dirty team and refs who will give them no quarter.

Late in the fourth and down by three, Coach throws a tantrum over a late hit on JD. If you watch a lot of basketball, you’ll recognize this tantrum as the intentional ejection. Realizing that the ref’s problem was more with him than the Panthers, and knowing the team was playing tighter than usual because of the refs, Coach did the only sensible thing and got himself kicked off the field. He retired to a dive bar where the game was on the TV and called Wade on the sidelines; unfortunately, Wade couldn’t hear him over the crowd noise. Fortunately, JD connected with Riggins on a screen pass – an insanely tough throw rolling left – and Tim bulled his way into the endzone with seconds to spare.3

Wade’s final-minute coaching heroics will obviously lead to tension in the weeks ahead, so that ought to be fun.4 But for now, Dillon’s one game closer.

Other thoughts:

  • Early on, I Tweeted this: “I quit high school fooball after one year because it interfered with sex and nap time after school. I shoulda played for Dillon.” Matt and Julie are cuddling post-coitally at 5:30 on a weekday? Landry’s tutoring Tyra and having band practice? The gang’s headed to the Alamo Freeze? When do the Panthers practice? Ever?
  • Oh Minka, it’s a good thing you’re pretty, because you can’t act worth a damn. During the arraignment, I suspect Lyla should have had an expression of disappointment on her face. Minka went with her one and only one expression: sanctimonious bitch.
  • Landry at Tyra’s: it’s amazing how quickly he realized he was slipping right back into his old, bad ways. Some really nice non-verbal stuff from Jesse Plemmons here while Tyra’s mom is trying to get him to fix the broken pilot light.
  • Usually I find the direction on FNL unobtrusive. It’s rarely inspiring camera work, but the handhelds and cuts don’t get in the way. Tonight, when Landry was giving his impassioned speech to Tyra about “The Giving Tree”, I wish they’d just stuck with the single reaction shot of Tyra. Too many cuts. They really took me out of the scene.
  • Crucifictorious went from being a speedcore/punk/whatever the hell they were trying to be into a tight little three-piece? That’s impressive. Especially as Landry had shown no ability whatsoever before.

What did everyone else think?

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R.A. Porter is an aspiring television writer who currently toils away in the software mines. He can be found at Sketch War, his personal blog, Tumblr, and stalked on Twitter.
  1. Presumably when Julie was the exact same age since Lyla’s a sixth-year senior. []
  2. Which means semis, right? []
  3. I love TV and movies. So many last-second victories. If only high school football were really that exciting. []
  4. Not. []

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5 Responses to “Friday Night Lights: “The Giving Tree””

  1. Mike Olbinski Says:

    Loved the episode. Thought the scene between Julie and Mrs. Taylor was brilliant…well done. They always handle those kinds of big time talks or conversations with such high quality.

    Only downer for me was the end and the other coach who called "3" plays and somehow was the savior for the team. A bit contrived for me.

  2. youcandoit Says:

    I had such high hopes that Minka Kelly had finally figured out this acting thing. She seemed like she was getting better for a while. But alas, hopes dashed.

  3. mj Says:

    Sorry if this sounds horribly rude but did you actually write the first paragraph of your review or is that quoted from somewhere? It's profound and I really enjoyed reading it. Kind of reminded me of a Coach T speech, actually. The episode was top-notch. Like in the generally disliked "Keeping Up Appearances" Episode earlier this season, this ep played strongly to a theme – "The Giving Tree". I liked the way the theme kept bobbing up including Coach deliberately giving himself up for the team to wake up the refs. I completely agree with you on the tantrum – it was a very deliberate strategy on the part of Coach and I thought it didn't actually have that much to do with his feelings about Matt and Julie. Those feelings might have provided motivation for getting to the level of rage that he demonstrated, but from the subsequent bar scene it just doesn't seem like he his loss of control was attributable to an emotional disarray about what he discovered at the Saracen household during the week. A few small but beautiful moments:
    - Julie's cheesy grin while Tyra used her to pitch Landry's band to the bar manager.
    - Coach sitting rigidly on the edge of the bed, clearly disturbed about how he would break the news to his wife.
    - the quiver in Tami's voice as she's about to hug Julie.
    - Saracen's tilted head and yes-sirs at the grill-cleaning.
    - Landry's snippet of a smile as he's closing the door after Tyra's visit.
    - The shot of Tyra with that gorgeous tree and the Texas horizon behind her as Landry leaves her house.
    - Buddy's self-proclaimed "world of hurt".
    - Lyla's reaction to her father blaming her mother (I thought that was the one very strong note in Minka's performance)
    - Riggins calling McCoy by his name rather than by "1-2".
    Of course, there are SO many more, especially with Coach.

  4. coyotesqrl Says:

    Not rude at all. I wrote that; glad you liked it.

    Nice catch on that shot of the horizon. I forget how integral the Texas landscape is to the show, almost like another character.

  5. kgeltemeyer Says:

    That Tim Riggins is sort of the hero of all time this season. Damn. And the visual of Julie and Tyra together always makes me laugh, even while I love it that Julie always tells her the truth. Ditto Tami — Jesus that was an amazing scene, just spot on dialogue that didn't scream DIALOGUE. Amazing.

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